Thank you LH for following my thread. So I got a call from L and she says guess what... I say what she says she received and email asking her what are we doing with this case. Remember my W filed and started all this and they want to know what we are doing. My L is really perplexed and says that W's L is incompetent. We should be at the point of them stating what they want, not us asking for what we want.
I have told two of my children that it looks like the D is going through and that they need to start looking for apartments. S21 got a little upset and does not understand what is wrong with his mother, I said that I am telling you so that you can be prepared as the house has to be sold. He said I really dont need this as he is about to enter the police academy, within 2 weeks. I said I will help you as much as I can.
Told D23 and she said ok that she can move by july or august, I said ok I just want her to be ready. She looked a little upset and said dad I dont think mom has (anyone else) OM why cant you guys work it out. I said that is between us and she should stay out of it.
S22 was not home but I will tell him today. D19 will not be told until she comes home from college around May 19th. Both S21 and D23 were told do not tell D19. D19 is the most sensative and she is going to have real problems with W. D19 and I were very close as we were both runners and ran several races together.
In some strange way I am feeling like I want this over, as hard as it is going to be breaking up our family I need to be happy too.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20