LBW, H in MLC and with OW - part 3

[Vanilla]

Oh dear we are getting the 'pity me parties for one' aren't we?

Words mean zilch, Nadal, zippo. After years of neglect your kids are going 'nah'.

Nah is a great place to be, if he carries on as he is gaslighting and pretending then eventually it will end with 'dad, drop dead' syndrome.

It's all just pretty words, intended to pull at your heart strings and go ahhhhh, maybe his heart is changing" but pretty is as pretty does.

You took away his cake, he loves cake with cream or ice cream? And sauce on a China plate with a fork, freshly baked in his favourite flavour of 'all mine".

Reality bites and reality is biting with WH. Gotta like it. He is getting stale mouldy bread with sour milk. And he feels entitled to his cake. But anything is better than nothing. Sounds like scnoopie needs more from him.

He is changing his life as a result of watching a minutes sloppy commercial, hey that will replace hours of therapy and hard work. It's one of the silliest things I have heard in a long time. Take me back because I have been watching nappy commercials? Ridiculous.

I am afraid this looks to me like hoovering, it's pure script, classic. The 'oh I am sorry I dipped my junk and physically abused you by risking your sexual health, I am sorry I neglected our kids. I am sorry because I am hurting and lacking cake. My children haven't connected with me and I also lack cupcake too. If it carries on this way it will be public knowledge, it's an end secret how horrible I am. Waaaaaaaaaa

Actually I was wondering if his middle name was weiner?

I call this type of hoovering weinering. The public apology whilst flashing his schlonger on porn sites to scuzzies.

Is that enough strength for you? I am sending you lots plus white noise ear plugs so when he starts his cootie words you can also go 'nah'.

I heard all this from the G 'I know I have issues' and 'so, sorry I hurt you, I didn't mean to'. Eventually after taking him back a couple of times then I went 'then grow up and deal with it'.

I would also STFU on your kids with him, he knows the position and telling him looks like emotional blackmail to me. Change or else? It isn't going to help you or him. He knows, your kids actions of 'neh' speak loudly enough, more than words. Watch out he will blame you for it because you haven't persuaded them he loves them? Trying to do that with kids in the mindset of 'neh' is going to put a bridge between you and them. They don't believe it when you say it because that's not his actions, you may want to believe it but in a state of 'neh' they won't. I think this will hurt your R with your kids if you persist.

Concentrate on you, put in those earplugs and stop engaging on it. It's cake and he is eating it up. Save your cake for you and the kids.

Believe actions not words. As Cadet says how do you know he is gaslighting? His lips are moving.

V