Well that's exactly why I didn't push for a date...I didn't want to look to excited. I just wanted to be nonchalant about it...like it was no big deal... like...oh yeahz sure we can meet up again. If I said okay cool what day and time? That, in my opinion would scream "needy." The idea is I want her to realize I am not even in the R mindset...that that desire is gone and I am ready for be casual friends. Oh and yes, j absolutely, positively will not reach out again. She will have to make the first move...and I'm very, very good feeling she will do just that. After all she initiated asking me to meet again. Now she needs to do a little pursuing I think. No way I initiate another contact...I don't care if another 4 years passes...it's clearly her move now. I am pleased with how today went...it was nice to see her initiate a second meeting almost immediately after I made contact today...20 minutes to be exact.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
