Dream interpretation isn't as mystical as I once thought. There are some certain recurring themes that come up.
And most importantly is this: While the causes for your feelings in a dream are disguised, the feelings themselves are absolutely consistent. In other words, if you feel threatened in a dream it is because you are feeling threatened in real life.
Some common dream symbols:
The house. Represents you, your inner being. Discovering new rooms is finding new parts of yourself. The fact that it is beautiful may suggest you like a lot of what is unfolding as you rediscover yourself and start shaping your new life.
The pool. Water is your deepest emotions.
So the meaning isn't even really disguised. It eerily matches the first half of your post, the whole "how long until I don't care" question. You want to be 'meh', you don't want him in your house (new life) or near your pool (influencing your emotions). But he still is. This is the threat. It has nothing to do with the real person he is, but as long as he remains such a focal part of your world, he threatens the new life you are building and the peace and happiness you search for.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
