WW moved out. Whirlwind of emotions

[Natash]

Hey reframe, I feel for you and Am in the same place. My WW is planning on moving out at the end of the month. I struggle to be up beat too, especially when interacting so much due to the kids but now realize her (and other WW) actions are part of who she is and inner demons coming out that she has not dealt with correctly over her life (Prior to the A and BD, I take 50 percent of the responsibility but everything after is all on her/them). I heard a marriage coach say today that even if we knew our wives were going to do such a thing, there is little to nothing we can do to stop them (which loops back to we can't control them). We don't want to be with women who treat us like this and deserve better. Maybe they'll figure that out, maybe they won't...maybe we'll stick around and maybe we wont.