Thank you for the advice, Olya. As you know, much of this is so much easier said than done! I don’t think quite honestly I can withstand an affair. Like I said in one of my last posts, it was my gut instinct from the start. Other than the wretched MLC symptoms, nothing else had really occurred with our relationship to warrant the huge changes in him. I just wish I could find some proof without resulting to snooping and becoming a crazy person.
I will continue to work on myself. It’s hard when your children are visibly upset with the situation and don’t understand it. They come to me only with questions and their concerns, and I barely get it myself!
The therapist I contacted called me back, and we set up a meeting about a week and a half from today. He would like me to ask the H to join us, and I told him I would ask him. I also informed him I was doubtful he would attend.
