The fact that I wanted a healthy, vibrant sex life, WITH MY WIFE, is not something I need to apologize for.
LOL! Exactly. It wasn't until I came here that I even knew there was such a thing as a SSM. I just assumed that all married couples had an active sex life. I mean I didn't get married just for sex, but it was a pretty important part of the M.
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Yes! I'm starting to realize that. This is not a matter of "please come back, all is forgiven" anymore. For me to see anything worthwhile in an ongoing relationship with her, I would need to see real and meaningful change in her. She would need to be willing to own her mistakes and work on them.
That's exactly right. And it can and does happen, there are many examples on these forums. But they've got to have an awakening as to what they are doing and what they've become, and what they may have lost.
