Well I did it. Sent a funny, one sentence text regarding a song we used to make fun of. About 20 minutes later she replies and reminded me of another funny song memory. Then she texted again and said we need to get together again soon. I'm going to wait about an hour to reply. Went much better than I expected. Baby steps.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14