I had been looking for a way to Respond and not React to my W. I had also been looking to become more mentally strong in regards to my sitch.

I stumbled on to this concept and it made sense. I think it is a subject that needs to be expanded in DB.
Much of the rules are already supporting the concept.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.