Want to run this by everyone. I have been reading No More Mr. Nice Guy and have been thinking about having a discussion with my W where I tell her that I am angry about this whole thing. That I am angry about how she disrespected me and our marriage. I want to acknowledge that I have been acting like a wimpy little boy instead of being a man and that I think she needs to make other arrangements for the horses and trailer. I feel like if I can do this then I am on my way to getting my balls back. What do you experts on here think about this?
Nope!
Although you would be telling her how angry you feel, it's still nice-guy tactics. So you do not see it? You want to resolve the problems, or get some desired response.......by talking to her. You don't get your b@lls back by having another conversation! You certainly won't accomplish anything by acknowledging to her how wimpy you were. That's what guys with NGS do!
Start being that man who has b@lls. The only thing you need to say to her is to get her cr@p out once and for all, and end these pit stops where she just picks up a few items at a time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
