Maybe guilt? I know my W was guilt ridden that after BD (which I initiated) on 12/23 that my Christmas was ruined. She'd say "let's not let it ruin the holidays".
My H said the same thing at BD (12/20/17), "I don't want this to ruin Christmas or your birthday" (my birthday is a month after Christmas, WTF?!).
Originally Posted By: Steve85
So I think it comes from guilt, and maybe a bit of a temp check, as if to see if it still has as big of an impact on you as it used to.
This is what I'm thinking, too.
Who knows. I am trying to not try to figure out what is going through his mind. Sometimes I'm successful, sometimes not.
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
