So an update...

My wife's sister-in-law lives about 2.5 hours away and is due to be induced tonight. Our children had been a little sick, so there was a little worry that they had to be fully healthy for them to go. They've both been healthy the past couple days, but there is some concern the youngest may still be a little contagious. Last night, we had discussed a plan where my wife would go tonight with the oldest that is in Kindergarten -- stay at her brother's, then I would come tomorrow or Sunday with my youngest, just to give her another day to be fully healthy.

Fast forward to this morning. My oldest asks my wife what we are doing this weekend and my wife announces that she is going on her own and we're going to visit the new baby in a few weeks. Essentially, my wife is going to go to the visit on her own.

She says she is staying at her brother's house, but may also stay with her parents in a hotel.

I can't help but be totally suspicious. The other man is about a 2 hour drive from where my wife is traveling.

I played it cool as I could this morning when she told us of the new plan, but it was hard.

Every part of me wants some reassurance from my wife. I want to ask just once -- "there is nothing I need to worry about, right?"

But right now I just need to focus on saying "ok, me and the kids will have fun here". Right?