Hey CW, just found your thread. I see the mention to being similar to my sitch so I went back and perused your older thread. And I too see the similarities. But I do see 2 big differences:

1) My wife went LOOKING for OM, it appears your wife got pursued by the OM.
2) My wife's EA was long distance with no chance of going physical (anytime soon anyway), while your wife's initial EA was with someone she was physically close to.

CW, I see you say at this point you don't care, yet you are still checking GPS locations, etc. I can tell you that that is caring. Now maybe you've moved on to caring to the point you want to know enough to cement your decision to move forward with D, or maybe you are still in the "hoping I find nothing and we can start moving on" mindset. Only you know that for sure. But I would argue that some part of you still cares if you are doing any snooping whatsoever.

I may have missed it, but are you two still in MC? Did she do any of the work outside of MC? There is usually homework with MC, was she willing to do any of it?

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018