Every decision you make is about your W. You need to work on you Start focusing on yourself, and stop focusing on how your W will feel or perceive what you do.
The love dare is for two people that are willing to work on the M. I would put that book on the shelf for now. Your W probably feels like you are forcing the Sitch with that book.
She is not working on the M now. Her actions will tell you she is working not her words.
What are her actions telling you? From your post she's not in the M now. I'm not saying she want be in the future, but right now She is not.
Become a person only a fool would leave, right in front her eyes. That's going to take a lot of hard work, self reflection and discipline from you.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.