Pull back. Are you familiar with the pursuit/ distance dynamic? There is a lot of info out there, but in a nutshell- you pursue, she distances. You distance, she pursues. It's complicated in a WAS scenario because WAS's will not pursue so much as temp check, but the point being the more you pursue the more she retreats behind her walls. The harder you pursue the faster she runs.
I'm not. But this just seems so backwards to me. I feel like if I start pulling away it will come across more like I've reverted to my old behavior --- bad communicator, disinterest in her. That's what drove her away in the first place.
