Sounds like there were ways to maybe resolve the sex and libido issues but she didn't want to do them until she absolutely had to do for other reasons.
Man, all the rest of the stuff is just excuses.
I know this is going to sound rough - do you really want to be with a woman who doesn't want to be with you sexually? What do you have to gain from a recon with this woman?
I know this [censored] and you want things to work out with her, but she isn't meeting your needs. You need to build up your self-respect and self-worth and that what you need is as important as the other person in the relationship.
I can tell you from my own experience, my sex life sucked. I wanted a dynamic sexual relationship, which W as not able to offer. If she came back for recon, I would hands down not take her back unless she decided to address her issues.
So, don't sell yourself short. She doesn't want to be with you. Okay! Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you at every level?
It hurts because you feel a loss of control and rejection hurts the ego. Give yourself time to accept and heal and detach. Your perspective will widen. But right now when the hurt is visceral, go GAL and try and live some life to chip away at that hurt. That's what it's for.
Re: climbing, I'd love to. Not sure where you're at, but majority of folks here are in the US. I am not. And not having a PM function [censored], I know.
