Wow Jim, this is was a little bit of what I was afraid of, especially with her past interactions with people at work, and the Doctor in general. But yeah, it does seem like it is awfully early for her to be asking for concessions already. I could see in 6 months her saying "bff is in town and I want to meet her for dinner if that is ok?" since she would have shown consistent behavior over time. But, 3 weeks later?
MC should be able to help here. It sounds like you have a really good one and they should be able to point out that this thinking is what led her down the road to what happened before (both 3 weeks ago, and prior to that!).
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018