You say no A, but something doesn't pass the sniff test here. I will just caution you to not get used to the idea of no A. I've often quoted a marriage expert that said "A wife/spouse doesn't need their own place to decide whether or not to divorce you, they need their own place to sleep with other people."

The one thing that really upset me is that she has talked to her family about the marriage, but you, who have no family to talk to, aren't supposed to talk to friends about it? That is narcissistic on her part.

Still there is always hope. Keep up the DBing: detach, GAL, and be the best you can be. I know this is all difficult, probably the most difficult thing you have every been through, but it does get better.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018