My core values tell me to stop. So how would you suggest handling this?
why do you think you should stop? what is the reason? i wouldn't stop... just go about living your life... if it includes people from your W's side, just keep going until it becomes an issue... if she asks you to refrain, then respect that... if they begin to get in the middle, then pull away... but as of now, it seems like things are okay... and you kids ought to spend some time with their great grandparents... my parents are in their 90s, and they just adore all of their grand and great grandchildren...
i think it's wonderful that you are connecting with your own siblings... i am the youngest of seven... there is a 20-year difference between me and my oldest sister, and an 8-year difference between me and the second youngest, and all seven of us are very close... i love the relationships we all have with one another... we are the only people in the history of the world who can say we are the children of this Celestino and Priscilla Last Name... we have that in common with one another, and no one else can make that claim, and for us, we are honored...