25years mlc 10 years pass I FILE #9 LAST LAP

[25yearsmlc]

[quote]Let's go where the rich nice guys are...first, find out where that is and THEN we need to go.

I need the website!! (I'll pass it on to you asap).

RE ONLINE DATING

So a 29 y/o posted to me even though I posted "no one closer in age to my 30 y/o son, than to me." He either didn't read it or, didn't understand it OR only focussed on my other comment

I had written in my profile that "I like a man who can open a pickle jar."

So this 29 y/o guy flexes his muscles for the photo! OMG I thought it was so funny and a tiny bit endearing, and maybe witty???

But here's the kicker.

BEHIND HIM in the photo, is a pile of DIRTY laundry, strewn about in a poorly lit room with an overhead "interrogation room" light, and an open can of something other than cat food, and a CAT near that can...!

"Hey 29y/o, thanks for sending me the whole picture and oh, I'm not sure we are well suited and... buh bye."

I may put this^^ in my set Monday night. As part of what I've learned with OLD and what I may suggest.
Such as "no 'nose up" photos. NO ONE is flattered by those." Also photos of places that lack YOU in them.

Paris? That's nice. Were you there? Living there now? Going there? (Taking me?) Why are you posting a photo of Paris.

Same for photos of wild animals that cannot be pets of yours (or I hope not)/ like elephants and lions. WHAT DO THOSE PICS MEAN? Pictures that resembler mug shots are also a turn off for me. But then, maybe I'm being picky.

Also what is with the photos of the TOP of your head? Even those with hair, why only show me that? Why the mystery?

Are you a celebrity, a spy or a wanted man? Shouldn't I know what you look like before we meet b/c - you know, I won't meet you otherwise...


unless you're in my "rich guy" set that KML and I are in. But you'd have to reveal that somehow, so, you know, I doubt it's helping their response rate.





Haha - I like the way you think! I guess I used to think of it the other way around - that I might be especially attractive to some sexy Spaniard looking for a green card and escape from the economic doldrums in Spain. But I like your idea of a rich guy better!

As you can tell, I've given this the attention it so richly deserves.

And notice I'm NOT saying "I want to find a rich doctor" b/c I know there's a 1st wife out there who will justifiably hate me.

As for the taxes - your ex probably just realized how much more he's going to have to pay in taxes. You could always ask him to send you his information so you can run the numbers ( it'll give you a chance to see just how much he's been lying about his income!) then tell him you've decided not to file together.

FYI in case I didn't say this before, I won't get any refund by filing separately. So I'm not losing money by "helping" him,

but I'm risking --

1) getting nothing b/c he might not do as he promises b/c you know, it's him. He can "Forget/change his mind/blame me for 30576 things that he now remembers, and thus, recalls that I don't deserve for him to keep his word..."

or 2) he can screw up the taxes, again, and maybe get me snagged in for liability.

But I feel like the innocent spouse rule would help me b/c of the release AND b/c I have literally not seen or heard from him in the year 2017

AND I have his pleadings in which he claims to have "retired". So it's not as if I KNOW he earned more.

3) he could show me huge high numbers and rub my face in it, ("after all the years of slogging thru poverty - look at ME now!! And you, 25, get none of it! Neither do our kids. [censored] sandwiches for everyone!")

in which case that just [censored], again, but there are easier ways to flaunt his wealth.


But at least I'm not spinning anymore at the big "outreach" from him. I snapped back to the "oh yeah, that is how he was but NOW he's this other dude" rather than

me sliding down into the "I'm missing the man he was --(see recent dreams)--- and maybe this is an inroad...and maybe he has realized what he's done and is sorry and maybe he IS a unicorn"

which I actually think at some level, I hoped/believed, much to my chagrin.