Well Stander, if WAW started pursuing me I would act like I was real busy but "squeeze" her in somewhere.
Great plan!
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Admittedly I was a bit taken aback by the "it probably wouldn't be healthy for either of us to talk every day" remark but I just blew that off because again, she can't threaten me with life without her this time...I already got that thanks.
I agree with Steve, it sounds like a temperature check. She wanted you to pursue a bit probably, try to tell her why you SHOULD talk every day. Your reaction of just blowing it off was the right one. Well done!
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Personally I think she knows damned well that if she spends any extended period of time with me she's going to fall for me again...and she doesn't want to.
Yeah I would imagine she's afraid to go there again, afraid things will just play out like they did before. But you're showing her a different "you" so that could eventually be the deciding factor for her.
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I think after two years of NC, NC is pretty much done so I might send her a text in a week or so.
Well that's right, NC never brings people back together, it is strictly to help the LBS cope with losing the WAS. It's to help them recover. You're beyond that point so NC is no longer needed. Of course like you said above you don't want to be too easily available, but pinging her isn't going to hurt anything.
