WW moved out. Whirlwind of emotions

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So, in DR, one of the details of the LRT is to accept SOME but not ALL of the WW invitations to do things.

At what point should I do that? I'm clearly not there. She moved out just under two weeks ago, has an ongoing A (although she doesn't see it that way since we're separated). But it I want to avoid a D at some point I assume I'll need to resume friendly, normal interactions, and allow her to see the positives she is missing?

I'm NOT looking for an excuse to rush this, just wondering how people know when it's time.