No affair, no feelings...is there hope?

[Olya]

Good job, man! Proud of you.

I know that what you are doing is scary, but think of it this way: didn't it take a lot of emotional strength and bravery to trust and to commit? It did - many people are utterly incapable of doing it and spend all their lives jumping from one shallow relationship to the next.

So, you were brave then and you can be brave and strong again. You're just moving in the opposite direction.

You can do it and I believe in you.

I think that you are doing everything right. Just make sure you make time to go see a lawyer too.