Great advice, Babe, thank you for that. I've now signed up for kite surfing lessons and my kids and I have been enjoying church every Sunday again. I don't reach out or seem needy to her, in fact, earlier she asked if I thought about her during the day since I've stopped contacting her much.

One day at a time....i hope you've found peace since your split. Best wishes to you. smile


Me: 43 She: 43
Married 14 Together 20
D7 S6
Separation bomb Dec 2017
Reconciled 3 weeks later Jan 2018
Second separation bomb April 2018