I got bombed Sep, 2014, my husband try to act 'normal' for months, we stayed at our apartment, during that time, he said he is sorry in one minute, next minute, he would say he hates me, I'm the one who ruined his life... he cried a lot and he ignored me. I was forced to walked on the eggshell and May 2015, he moved out of our apartment.
It was so difficult at the first year after bomb dropped, had no idea of how to set the boundary, I don't know how to respond to his request - he needs divorce.
Fortunately, I found this forum and the information of midlife crisis and am grateful for the help I have from so many great posts here !!
Keep faith and focus on yourself, get a life like she is not coming back (at least few years) love her from distance, pray for her.
me 44 husband 43 no kids married 12 years got bombed Sep. 2014 h moved out May 2015
