Whatever this OW is you dont care. Why she is doing what she is doing is not of any concern to you.
Give your H all the space he needs. Is the home he refer to the marital home if so, it belongs to the both of you. Seems to me like he is trying to bully you out the M. Stop talking and responding to him. Cut off all communication.
You are doing a good job so far. You seem to have the concept down, about saving yourself.
Find some hobbies to do besides just going to school. Look on meetup.com for some activities happening in the local area.
Well, Joe, here's the thing - I get to be angry. He's been texting this harlot for 3 weeks and now he's decided that he's going to build a life with her? I know his texts say that he'll see how it goes, but I know him well enough to tell that he is ready to jump into this relationship head first.
That said, I have not lashed out at him. Nor will I. Right now it is about me and what is best for me. And what is best for me is to put on a happy face and drag this out until I can stand on my own two feet. Then I will decide what I want to happen.
Yes, he is referring to our marital home. We are renting on post. I am not sure how much this matters. I need to go talk to an attorney who knows something about these matters. That will have to wait until I'm back home. There is an Air Force Base near by - I will go there, I think. I don't want to use Army JAG only to have it get back to him that I have been seeking legal advice.
Now, I would love your opinion on something. The things that I listed in my post to you - do you agree with this course of action?
Me: 28 H: 30 T: 9 M: 7
WAH: First half of 2017. Round 2 started in Spring 2018.
