Please take J9 advice. Don't offer up explanations if your W don't ask for one. And keep your explanations short. Your life is about actions now. Not words. Hit the gym or the road, get in shape and change up your look. Where tighter shirts as you get fitter. Buy new shoes. Wear different smell goods. Get a different hair cut. Get out and do things by yourself and with friends.
Enjoy life! A.k.a GAL
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.