Wow, this is spot on. After discovering the affair, and W moving out in Oct. SHe did this type of thing. affection given "because i know its what you want" despite knowing i know its not what she wanted. She felt guilty and was trying to balm my hurt, all the while living at her moms and continuing the affair. That was all in Dec. She has been NC since Late Jan, so that didn't last long.
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds