Picking up Her MESS #3 and is getting Worse

[marina7]

Journaling,
Here I am thread #3 and as I said its getting worse.

Still doing process of bringing s9 home. Who would have thought this is a long process and a waist of money. I wish W could see what she is doing.

Well as I wrote getting worse. From what I hear W is so angry. W while driving says the f words or call people stupid or [censored] just angry. I am seeing W spiralling its scary I tell kids just to stay out of W way. The scsry thing is W goes through her rage of yelling and cursing at kids and breaking dishes. Unfortunately I have to had a serious conversation with all kids I told them while being with W uf she ever starts going crazy and they feel scared to all three run together hold hand and just run and run till they get help. And to call 911 and call me

I never thought I would have to protect my kids from W. W was once so over protective with them now she cares s9 just turn 9 but doesn't look 9 he small for his age w lets him go to men's bathroom alone. S9 said he was scared there where lots of mens he runs out says mommy i don't feel safe. W tells s9 stop being a pussy.. Yes talks bad to them.

Yes I have told GAL and my lawyer again the system has failed me and kids they said it's he said and she said. Unfortunately we see this alot through Ex. Wtf... I am speechless

I now don't sleep or eat when they with W on her weekend. I know we LBS need to take care of ourselves but how could I when my kids are hurting they have told every adult they don't feel safe with her. I have cried to lawyers and said what are ya waiting for. Kids are saying they are scare of there mom when she the boogy man they are scare of it.

I believe W is to far gone to even be a mom again. I think W could never come back from this dark place she is in. To much damage to much pain to much hurt to abuse.

[marina7]

Don't know how to post last thread can someone help

[SteveLW]

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[Vanilla]

Marina

Is there any way that this can be recorded? It really is awful and I understand why you are very worried.

Explosive anger is very worrying and frightening. I think you only need one recording to prove your point.

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[Vanilla]

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[marina7]

V,
Unfortunately W is very smart she says things to them in her car or her home. Kids tell me W checks there bags if they bring anything. If they bring their game system she takes away from them. I am honestly not sure for what they waiting I honestly just want W to get help W has PTSD and now mlc is like two bombs going off. I know GAL has it noted kids statement they don't feel safe.

[Vanilla]

Yes, it's tough Marina, so so tough.

Any news yet on your health tests?

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[Vanilla]

My only other thought is a PI report.

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[marina7]

Journaling,
Hello all still here, it's been a yr since bd and we have survived me and the kids.

Update I now have two 10yrs old and a 9yrs old my 3 beautiful babies are getting big and I must say time is flying and they been so strong throughout this process.

So I got surgery for my left breast they removed some of the cyst and now waiting for results. Is scary process but I believe all this happens for a reason a yr ago I didn't understand why us why all this but now I am understanding why and unfortunately I have grown as a person and a mother.

W is still angry but lately seen emotions tears actually came down her face. Unfortunately it has gone far as GAL and my son being physically abuse but at this point all I know is there is no going back with W. W is far gone that hole. I can't imagine putting my kids through this hell again.

W has her angry moments she picks fights with our kids infact she has stated all 3 kids has ruin her life and they all are F***king liars. W has choosen ow side when kids try to tell there mom that ow threaten them saying I will pull your ear or pinch u if you don't listen. Kids have tried to tell her but W response is to ignore them or call them liars.

I am truly disappointed in how long it is taking to bring s10 home. But my faith knows God has a plan. W has also tried to say is my fault for hiring lawyers. I just replied all I want is my kids together and safe that's all I care.

Is there anyone here who had a W or H pick on only one child and mistreat that only child my W is horrible to s9, he has came to his own conclusion that W hates him. I have Express No mom doesn't mom is not mom right now.

[Vanilla]

Thank you for the update Marina. You and the children have been in my votive every day.

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