How do you suggest I field it if she continues to make friendly overtures? I agree that I don't want to accept, but I don't want to come off as if I'm punishing her either. Saying "We won't be hanging out while you're with OM sounds hurt and vindictive".
My coach suggested a fairly honest approach. Something like: "I'm not ready for that. I've never been here before. My most important thing now is to improve myself and keep my self respect"
I'm interested in other suggestions though.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
