W moved out, still has belongings in the house. Still with OM. Trying to stay NC and GAL. No movement on the D papers. Am working to refinance house and buy her out. I am still hopeful that down the road we could Recon and begin a new R somewhere down the road. Am keeping in contact with her family. Am not encroaching on family events or visiting when she will be around, in fact haven't been to see or talk to her parents since before she moved out at Easter. Hope I am doing the right things to show that I am going to be ok and pave the way for whatever comes in the future. Not sure how long I can wait for her to finish the D.
along, I will keep you in my prayers my friend. I know you were dreading this, but maybe the shine will wear off of the OM now, and she will realize how much better she had it with you.
On the D, from what I have learned from the experts here is that she probably won't move it forward, that will be left to you. So it is really up to you when you decide to really move forward and put the MR behind you.
I am hoping for the best for you. Keep the GAL, it is the best way to move forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
