Nice to see you here Benito and it's good to see you sharing your knowledge for the newcomers. I can admit that I am definitely one of those who think not all stories are the same and the people related have a big impact on what the ending is. At the same time, however, a person who can BD WITHOUT having a third party validating their "uniqueness" is very strong emotionally so I think you have a true gem on your hands.
However, as someone who could read through your previous posts, it was evident that you did the work. Without it, as you said, you would be divorced. I never meant to say it by neglecting the work you had done.
Please keep visiting and sharing your story. Personally, I feel a bit "connected" to you, Maika, Holding and J9 because you all were here pretty much at the same time as I was. Mostly because those stories are the ones I follow the most.
For the newcomers, Benito was really hopeless about a year ago. Look at him now. The future is unwritten and even if your case does not end up in a reconciliation, it doesn't mean your future will be empty. You are the one who write your own future, so write it bright and beautiful.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
