lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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W moved out, still has belongings in the house. Still with OM. Trying to stay NC and GAL. No movement on the D papers. Am working to refinance house and buy her out. I am still hopeful that down the road we could Recon and begin a new R somewhere down the road.
Am keeping in contact with her family. Am not encroaching on family events or visiting when she will be around, in fact haven't been to see or talk to her parents since before she moved out at Easter.
Hope I am doing the right things to show that I am going to be ok and pave the way for whatever comes in the future. Not sure how long I can wait for her to finish the D.