Yo Benni!! So good to hear from you always. Love the update. I so wish you earlier threads were available so people can see what you went through, and how it wasn't any different than others on this board.

I am super happy to hear about the relationship with your parents. And yeh, it's about changing your life, and it will impact all relationships. In my case, my R with my kids has improved so dramatically because I made changes within myself. So, DBing has already made me a better parent and a father.

There are victories beyond just your marital relationship.


No one is coming to save you!