She's acting kind of like a kid who said "I don't want to go to the dance with you, but we can still be friends". She doesn't seem to have any grasp of the magnitude of throwing away an 11 year relationship and wants to act like things are still fine between us. Still hugs me when she sees me, etc...
yea.. this is what you have to break and the earlier the better. I'm not suggesting being punitive... but no more hugs. Friendly neighbor is all you are now. Good call on canceling dinner.
I would still block her but that is up to you. You got this! Focus that energy else where!
