Gordie #18: still not divorced

[25yearsmlc]

at some point, someday,

you have to choose to go "from this day forward", like the vows.

I always thought those words were crucial. Plus, no marriage lasts that doesn't include a boatload of forgiveness

given and asked for.

Not saying you are there yet, by any means.

But if there's no way you can ever imagine reconciling, I mean, no offense,

then why are you here?

I'm asking. YOU have to know what your ideal outcome would be, and then figure out how you'll deal with your other, possibly more realistic options.

But you need to imagine a scenario in which you could work things through ----- or just decide NO WAY and end any thoughts of it. As in, "the end."

Hang in there.