she talks about the future? Is she sweeping her MLC under the rug. Does she talk about what happened and why? If you question her does she huff and puff and avoid answering.
How do you honestly feel about what she did? Could you just accept it and move forward? Without the answers you need.
Are you ready to trust her or will you have many doubts if she goes out alone or with friends? Will you give her the 3rd degree when she gets back home? How will she react to that?
You see, she needs to be ready to get that from you. Trust needs to be rebuilt. Giving you her phone password may only mean that. She could be using email to communicate.
Therapy. of course but she needs individual therapy before couple therapy. That alone is time. So she can figure it all out.
I'd hate for you both to play happy home and MLC pokes its ugly head out again.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015