You are getting some great responses and very solid advise.
How many of us on here look back once our spouses have left and say "wow. The signs were all there. Why the hell did I put up with that. Why wasnt I the one to leave?"
Here's the thing. Hera was always my least favorite of the Greek goddesses. She seemed like such an unpleasant nag. Always chasing and trying to catch her husband cheating. I assumed she wasn't as beautiful or valuable or loveable as the others. Not very fair of me. Her husband was the problem.
I would not want to be her though. I want to be the one that is desired and loved and cherished. Not the one that is resentful and filled with anger and panic and jealousy. But that's kust not possible in some relationships. No matter how much you try to rationalize, appeal to, get angry at, or threaten.
Personally, i would rather be alone then chasing someone that has eyes for others because of who it turns you into. That nagging Hera.
