Never let the LBS feel secure, keep the wobble board wobbling. Compare the LBS with other women. Keeps her on her toes on that wobble board. Keeps her guessing. Unsettle her, interferes with sleep and wellbeing, but hey its fun to watch someone wobble. And it drives them crazy staying up right. They must stay on that wobble board to be in an R with WH.
Be intermittently nice then wobble that board. Drive her crazy with guessing when the next wobble is coming.
Someone who respects you won't treat you this way. Forget love which is a choice, think respect. He puts himself up there and you on a wobble board he can wobble at any time.
You aren't in a beauty parade, you are his W. You shouldn't be compared with random women in any way. It's up to him to handle come ons from skanks who want to take their knickers off. At work that's sexual harassment anyway. But it's nice for him to have an extra to wobble that board.
Those are my thoughts.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW