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[Vanilla]

You may note that Fogg faced this issue last weekend with his ex W, who behaved atrociouslying at his Grandma funeral and actually took OM2.

My own thoughts are it's fine to go to the funeral itself be discrete in where you sit, pay your respects. Drop in at the wake for a short while then bow out. It's to pay your respects not to be social. If your kids stay you may want to pick them up later.

It's how you are and behave that is important.

I went to H2 mums funeral (not the wake), sat further back and simply offered my condolences on the sad loss. I thought it would be awkward, it wasn't. Made my escape, apologies not able to attend wake, mumble, mumble.

V