I cannot be 100% sure, but I strongly believe that they did not plan the meeting since my kids were there too... However, I know for sure that I cannot believe what she says so my position is not that good. That´s why I need to cut the support if she do not show that she want´s to find something new between us. I know it would be mentally easier to do that right away (and maybe even more effective), but to be honest: I fear to do that.