Not sure if anyone will even respond as there doesn't seem to be too much traffic in this forum.
The reason for even seeking some advice is that I don't know who to talk to other than the people on this site that have been through all this. So here goes.....
My X wife's sister died last week unexpectedly, this has been a shock to her family and of course I am very sad about this as I've known this woman for over 25 years. I am still close with my X's family but I am unsure as to what I should do??? I was planning on going to the funeral but should I go to the visitation, the luncheon after the funeral??? I'm not sure, I don't want there to be any uncomfortable situations for my X. Not that I care how she feels but for her family.
Also, I'm sure I will be seeing the very encouraging best friends of my X who convinced her that she was doing the right thing and even setting her up with guys while we were going through the divorce process. I'm just not sure how to act, my inner anger that I am working so hard on, but the thought of seeing these people(the friends) just has me uneasy.
I think I just need to put my feelings aside and be there for my kids! Maybe that's the best approach.
