No affair, no feelings...is there hope?

[44tries]

Let me ask you something. If she kicked you out on the street tonight, what would you do? In other words, how would you take care of yourself?

In the immediate term, I would take my car and go to a hotel. Technically, she can't kick me out on the street, because as Olya pointed out, I can go to her command and exercise my rights. Now, I would probably think long and hard before going into a nasty battle like this. But if it truly came to the point where she was kicking me to the street and locking the door, I guess I wouldn't be afraid to get dirty. I would tell her she needed to figure out how to get all my stuff including car shipped ASAP and I wouldn't leave until everything I own or care about was out the door. I probably wouldn't muscle my way into staying in the house, but I'm no legal expert and I would make sure I wasn't doing anything to make myself vulnerable before physically leaving.

I'm not completely broke or anything so I'm not worried about keeping a roof over my head. I'm also not worried about her actually kicking me to the street. Even if worst comes to worst and we get a divorce, I really don't have a doubt that it would be amicable. I want to save my marriage, but I'm not crazy. If she got to that point and there was no turning back, I'm done and moving on.