Sorry to hear about the son's issues. OM may have thought paying the ticket would score him some points with your W, if she gave him the brush-off, as she claimed that day in the gym. I hope she won't feel indebted to him! It wasn't his place or any of his business.

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Note that this was, however, before W made her "get lost" call and sent her "get lost" letter.


BTW, how did OM react when your W gave him the "get lost" phone call?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!