LBW, H in MLC and with OW - part 3

[meg24]

So I sent H a text this morning. Told him that I need to set boundaries, no more sex while he's seeing OW, that I have to value myself, and for my health can't do it. He read it as giving him ultimatum, he feel's like he just lost me, he's not choosing one or the other right now. He said he understands and respects my feelings, as well as me speaking out. He said I've always turned him on and he's always told me how attracted to me he is and it's hard not to want me when he's around.

I am so ready to just throw in the towel, let him have whatever he wants.

You all warned me, in so many ways.