thanks! that is great advice. My concern was coming like I was trying to control things.
I'm financially comfortable, so paying for the dogs is not a big deal, and I'm obviously not going to fail to take care of them.
I think a reasonable approach is to say "I think the dogs are a shared responsibility. I'll keep track of expenses, and you can pay me back one you're more settled".
thoughts?
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18