Maika -

thanks! that is great advice. My concern was coming like I was trying to control things.

I'm financially comfortable, so paying for the dogs is not a big deal, and I'm obviously not going to fail to take care of them.

I think a reasonable approach is to say "I think the dogs are a shared responsibility. I'll keep track of expenses, and you can pay me back one you're more settled".


thoughts?


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18