She said she just wanted us to be happy and wasn't worried at all that they wouldn't be loved enough or taken care of enough. She also said "I know how he is"...

She said "I know that if comes to that, you guys will work together. Because anything other than that WOULD make me mad."


wow... i can only go by what you have shared here... i do not know your daughter, and i am not privy to the tone of voice, but it seems to me that your daughter was giving your "permission" or at least "understanding" if you decided to do something more drastic about your situation...

my two cents...

--artista