So H is feeling guilty, and finding life isn't the bowl of cherries he thought it would be? Fu$% him. Has his behavior changed at all? No? Fu$% him. Was he engaged with your daughter at her birthday party? No? Fu$% him. He was angry you need more money for the moving company? Fu$% him. He's meeting you in the new city on Friday? So what? Is that supposed to make up for his affair, and moving out? Fu$% him. Tell him you don't want him there on Friday, and you don't want him moving to your new city. Get away from this jackass as soon as you can.
You don't need him. You are going to be so much better off without him. Detach, detach, detach.
(sorry if this was a little harsh)
(((hugs)))
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17