Sara, I hope the talk with your daughters went well. Maybe you can also have one-on-one talks with them in the next few days to hear how they're feeling. It's not easy for any of you, but it's nice that you have three kids and you can all support each other. It's difficult and scary and unfair but I have no doubt your kids will see the truth as they get older and will understand and support you in your decision to do what's best for them.