Costa Rica? Chile? Ecuador? I love the idea of living abroad. I'd like to do it when I retire, but I'm not sure I'll be free of caretaking responsibilities by that time (mom and kids) so I might have to settle for just vacations.
I have no desire to marry again, although I'd be happy to have a good long term partner. I'd certainly never marry without an ironclad prenup. Right now, I'm happy just to have a sexy friend I see once a month or so. (Not nearly enough sex but on the other hand I have enough energy for all the other people in my life who need me.)